Author: Hedayah

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Matter of Triple Talaq

On behalf of Ishrat bhai….

Assalamualaikum, Limitation of talaq to three times was done to prevent the harassment of women  and to preserve their dignity. A men due to his status as husband doesn’t have right to harass his wife again and again on petty issues. Provision of talaq is given so that you can get separate twice in the life of your difference are not sorted out amicably. However if you separate thrice then you cannot   unite and you have to explore other options and seek Allah’ s help with patience and salah. Allah is Gani. Unfortunately, this provision which was originally meant to prevent harassment of women is being used to harass them in the name of Shariah. When it comes to matter of women every one remember Shariah, other wise every body is following worldly desires. When nikah is performed between a men and women, from the needle to vehicle is provided by girl’s father as he has committed a grave sin by giving birth to girl child. He has to provide food and service to the family and friends of men. Why?. Nikah is a Sunnah of our beloved prophet and prescribed way of life by Allah. This is a requirement of both men and women and a way to get new generation. Then why whole burden is passed on to father of a girl. He is squeezed like juice from a sugarcane is taken out. This is clearly a zulm and we are subjecting ourselves with this grave sin. Recently one of my Hindu friend asked me regarding miserable situation of women in Muslim community. I told him that this situation is everywhere. Why a woman is required to bring the needle to car from her father home when marriage is a requirement for both. Then he became silent. I am requesting to my sisters to oppose these practices which are giving bad name to Islam.

JazakAllah Khair.